MINOR: vars: Add vars_set_by_name_ifexist function

MINOR: vars: Add vars_set_by_name_ifexist function

This function, unsurprisingly, sets a variable value only if it already
exists. In other words, this function will succeed only if the variable was
found somewhere in the configuration during HAProxy startup.

It will be used by SPOE filter. So an agent will be able to set a value only for
existing variables. This prevents an agent to create a very large number of
unused variables to flood HAProxy and exhaust the memory reserved to variables..