MINOR: cache: Add option to avoid removing expired entries in lookup function

MINOR: cache: Add option to avoid removing expired entries in lookup function

Any lookup in the cache tree done through entry_exist or
secondary_entry_exist functions could end up deleting the corresponding
entry if it is expired which prevents from using a rdlock on code paths
that would just perform a lookup on the tree (in
http_action_req_cache_use for instance).
Adding a 'delete_expired' boolean as a parameter allows for "pure"
lookups and thus it will allow to perform operations on the tree that
simply require a rdlock instead of a "heavier" wrlock.