MINOR: mux-h2/traces: explicitly show the error/refused stream states

MINOR: mux-h2/traces: explicitly show the error/refused stream states

Sometimes it's unclear whether a stream is still open or closed when
certain traces are emitted, for example when the stream was refused,
because the reported pointer and ID in fact correspond to the refused
stream. And for closed streams, no pointer/name is printed, leaving
some confusion about the state. This patch makes the situation easier
to analyse by explicitly reporting "h2s=CLO" on closed/error/refused
streams so that we don't waste time comparing pointers and we instantly
know the stream is closed. Now instead of emitting:

   [03|h2|5|mux_h2.c:2874] h2c_frt_handle_headers(): leaving on error : h2c=0x7fdfa8026820(F,FRE) dsi=201 h2s=0x9fdb60(0,CLO)

It will emit:

   [03|h2|5|mux_h2.c:2874] h2c_frt_handle_headers(): leaving on error : h2c=0x7fdfa8026820(F,FRE) dsi=201 h2s=CLO