BUG/MEDIUM: server: support changing the slowstart value from state-file

BUG/MEDIUM: server: support changing the slowstart value from state-file

If the slowstart value in a state file implies the latest state change
is within the slowstart period, we end up calling srv_update_status()
to reschedule the server's state change but its task is not yet
allocated and remains null, causing a crash on startup.

Make sure srv_update_status() supports being called with partially
initialized servers which do not yet have a task. If the task has to
be scheduled, it will necessarily happen after initialization since
it will result from a state change.

This should be backported wherever server-state is present.