MINOR: connection: add a new conn_drain() function

MINOR: connection: add a new conn_drain() function

Till now there was no way to know from a connection if a previous
call to drain() had done any change. This function is used to drain
incoming data and to update the connection's flags at the same time.
It also correctly sets the polling flags on the connection if the
drain function indicates inability to receive. This function will
be used preferably over ctrl->drain() when a connection is used.