MINOR: quic: Missing active_connection_id_limit default value

MINOR: quic: Missing active_connection_id_limit default value

The peer transport parameter values were not initialized with
the default ones (when absent), especially the
"active_connection_id_limit" parameter with 2 as default value
when absent from received remote transport parameters. This
had as side effect to send too much NEW_CONNECTION_ID frames.
This was the case for curl which does not announce any
"active_connection_id_limit" parameter.
Also rename ->idle_timeout to ->max_idle_timeout to reflect the RFC9000.