MEDIUM: mux: prepare for takeover on private connections

MEDIUM: mux: prepare for takeover on private connections

When a backend connection is marked as idle, a special flag TASK_F_USR1
is set on MUX tasklet. When MUX tasklet is reactivated, extra checks are
executed under this flag to ensure no takeover occurred in the meantime.

Previously, only non private connections could be targetted by a
takeover. However, this will change when implementing private idle
connections closure on "delete server" CLI handler. As such, TASK_F_USR1
is now also set for private connections in MUX detach callbacks.