MINOR: listener: support another thread dispatch mode: "fair"

MINOR: listener: support another thread dispatch mode: "fair"

This new algorithm for rebalancing incoming connections to multiple
threads is simpler and instead of considering the threads load, it will
only cycle through all of them, offering a fair share of the traffic to
each thread. It may be well suited for short-lived connections but is
also convenient for very large thread counts where it's not always certain
that the least loaded thread will always be found.