MEDIUM: muxes: mark idle conns tasklets with TASK_F_USR1

MEDIUM: muxes: mark idle conns tasklets with TASK_F_USR1

The muxes are touching the idle_conns_lock all the time now because
they need to be careful that no other thread has stolen their tasklet's
context.

This patch changes this a little bit by setting the TASK_F_USR1 flag on
the tasklet before marking a connection idle, and removing it once it's
not idle anymore. Thanks to this we have the guarantee that a tasklet
without this flag cannot be present in an idle list and does not need
to go through this costly lock. This is especially true for front
connections.