MINOR: listener: make accept_queue index atomic

MINOR: listener: make accept_queue index atomic

There has always been a race when checking the length of an accept queue
to determine which one is more loaded that another, because the head and
tail are read at two different moments. This is not required, we can merge
them as two 16 bit numbers inside a single 32-bit index that is always
accessed atomically. This way we read both values at once and always have
a consistent measurement.