MINOR: connection: make the last arg of subscribe() a struct wait_event*

MINOR: connection: make the last arg of subscribe() a struct wait_event*

The subscriber used to be passed as a "void *param" that was systematically
cast to a struct wait_event*. By now it appears clear that the subscribe()
call at every layer is well defined and always takes a pointer to an event
subscriber of type wait_event, so let's enforce this in the functions'
prototypes, remove the intermediary variables used to cast it and clean up
the comments to clarify what all these functions do in their context.