REORG: listener: move the bind_conf's thread setup code to listener.c

REORG: listener: move the bind_conf's thread setup code to listener.c

What used to be only two lines to apply a mask in a loop in
check_config_validity() grew into a 130-line block that performs deeply
listener-specific operations that do not have their place there anymore.
In addition it's worth noting that the peers code still doesn't support
shards nor being bound to more than one group, which is a second reason
for moving that code to its own function. Nothing was changed except
recreating the missing variables from the bind_conf itself (the fe only).